You have no business looking for a wife if you lack these qualities:
1. SOUND VISION
You know exactly where you are going and how to go there. If you don’t know where you are going, how will anyone help you reach your destination? You are the leader, she follows your lead. If you are blind and can’t see the road, you will end up a failure; marital cases are on the rise. Get a good, sound vision for your life!
2. YOU HAVE A GOOD JOB/BUSINESS
It is your responsibility to work hard and get paid for your services. Stop using the Nigerian economy as an excuse for poor take-home. If the job is not paying well, look for another one. If you can’t get it, pray. If you still don’t get it, create products and services that will bring in extra money. Some men are just mentally, and physically lazy and won’t do anything extra to make more money. Most youths today are looking for white-collar jobs and if they don’t get them, fold their arms and wait for a woman to come and rescue them! You are not serious brother! Not all who ride Maruwa are illiterates! Some okada riders are B.Sc holders. They would rather work with their two hands than kill or steal pants for money rituals. The God who sees your faithfulness, prayer and hard work will surely bless and elevate you! I heard the story of a graduate who worked as a gateman for a company because there was no job. He was very faithful and hardworking till his boss called him and asked for his qualifications, the man was flabbergasted and employed him right away, and in no time, he became a manager in the company. What if he chose to sleep at home because there was no job?
3. YOU ARE WISE
You talk with wisdom and act in wisdom. It is wisdom to fear the Lord “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom…”
4. YOU HAVE PATIENCE
It takes a patient man to live with a woman. Being a woman is complex. It takes God to have easy womanhood.
Every virtuous woman is made by God and her husband. Your patience will turn her from a ferocious lion to a gentle lamb!
5. YOU UNDERSTAND AND CAN MEET THE NEEDS OF A WOMAN
A woman needs plenty of affection, honest communication, financial provision, faithfulness and commitment to the family, and plenty of love and care to be happy and fulfilled in marriage, can you meet these needs?
6. YOU CAN GIVE HER MIND BLOWING ORGASM
Sex is a serious business in marriage. Many women run from sex in marriage because the man just doesn’t know how to do it. Sex is more than “remove your pants, spread your laps”, go in, dance shaku, shaku, rotate and get out, sex is…sex is…watch out for my ebook on this topic. If you can make her enjoy sex and scream your name in bed, you will never have serious marital crises needing divorce! Yes! Satisfying sex can kill many tension and crises in marriage. God bless my husband, Adewunmi Oladele for me. Love you, muuuuuaaaaaah!
Like I have always screamed loud and clear, SEX IS STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED! This article is for mature men. If you are not mature enough to handle this post, you are not ready for marriage!
7. YOU HAVE SELF CONTROL
Self-discipline is an invaluable quality of great men. The ability to control your erection, appetite, temper and flesh is the hallmark of a great husband and you will inevitably enjoy marital bliss. Lack of self-control is one of the leading causes of divorce worldwide.
Men, like I always say, you are awesome! Develop these godly qualities and watch women go completely crazy for you. We marry men who have excellent qualities. You are loved!
