WHAT EXACTLY IS AN ORGASM?
Orgasm can be defined as the peak or climax of SEXUAL excitement. Married couples should make it an objective to drive their partner to this peak during sexual act.
The following steps will help to build up the excitement that will help you reach Orgasm.
1: Look nice, smell nice and be clean. Stop carrying dirty pants around, learn to understand that vagina hairs need to be shaved or trimmed. It’s so annoying that some ladies smell badly inside there which comes as a distraction.
You may choose to wear (nightwear, bra or panties. Take note that every man is Attracted by what they see.
2: Choose a nice and comfortable place to help you have undistracted sex. Eg. Hotel, living room, bathroom, bedroom, floor. Etc
3: Adjust the light to what suits you—- Darkness, dim lights or bright lights.
4: Foreplay should begin with spontaneous endearing conversation accompanied by loving pats, hugs and kisses.
Foreplay is a must, women are more moved by what touches them, what they see and what they hear, unlike men who are been moved by what they see. Therefore, don’t Rush your woman as if she is running to elsewhere.
5: Gradually learn to undress each other. Do you know a woman finds it Romantically rewarding, if her husband is the one who will gently undress her? Just as a man feels happy if the wife is the one who will tell her husband my king, I want you to have sex with me. stop rushing her as if someone is about to catch you in the act. Even God knows you are doing it and he has no trouble with what you are doing.
6: The husband must continue Stimulating the woman’s clitoris until she is high before penetration. Eg. He may gently start fondling the clitoris with his tongue or finger. kissing and caressing her lips, thighs, buttocks, clitoris, labia and other parts of her body until she is sexually excited. This will signal an increase in vaginal lubrication to enhance penetration and sweetness.
7: The wife should also continue Stimulating her husband’s penis by rubbing and caressing the penis especially the cap or the tip and gently touching his tentacles.
PLEASE NOTE: Orgasmic Excitement in women is slower and lasts longer than in men. The woman’s Build-up during orgasm can be compared to the heating of an electric iron, whereas that of the man can be compared to switching on an electric bulb. This is why you need to take your time and not rush her.
8: At a point where the husband judges that his wife is at the height of her cloud 8 now he can penetrate. Do you know that one of the most pleasurable things during sexual intercourse is the woman’s feelings about the man’s penis entering her vagina? Not sex toys or as men are fooled to Believe that toys are far better than the real penis. Oh, my Goodness, you need to know the benefits of the pre-fluids that come out from a man’s penis before entering.
9: Talk to each other and express your feelings during the act.